She hasnt said too much. Its not like hes unhealthy big but after 20 years together he is about 125 pounds bigger which sounds like a lot when I type it but really isnt. At 31, I've been in a couple of long-term relationships before. Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. Ice cream poke poke. I can hardly wait until I hit 300. Who is shaming you? To my surprise she was turned on by the thought of gaining and not dieting. He likes me real fat and say that i can keep eating what i wants. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. On our tenth anniversary she was 295 lbs, and on our 20th she weighed 360. He's not depressed or angry or bitter -- he just makes these comments here and there. And raising my beautiful girls the same way. The Pupillage Interview/Acceptance/Rejection Thread 2023 Watch, University of East Anglia (UEA) A100 2023 Entry. Anonymous. He had his shirt off last night, and WOW, what a pot belly. My boyfriend/girlfriend is doing it and or are encouraging me to do with them. Does she know you love her fatter from the beginning or did she start gaining and you always seems to appreciate her figure?With stocking the freezer and pantry is she aware that you want her to keep gaining or does she mention it to you?How big do you think she will get or want her to get? In this article, we have discussed this topic in detail. It turns me on to think that I have doubled his weight. My boyfriend is like the complete physical opposite of me. She agreed to gain weight when we met and today she wants to add more pounds for me. Any idea on where you will stop? Haha that's adorable. I love his weight pressing down on me, and his belly sagging when he's on top. Its very important to me that we take care of ourselves and this is part of that. You can also bring up how you feel you havent been having sex as much recently and wanting to change that. I love food, especially chocolate. But life happens and with work and kids and the house it is only natural that he got bigger. Is it all her fault? After the pregnancy, she just never lost the weight, and in fact, much to my delight, kept gaining. He had never mentioned being into bigger girls before we dated and married. Anyone getting fat for a new years resolution? The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. Just something I never told anyone. Id love to be big as a cow but have work and life demands that keep me in check. I tried to get him to go to the gym with me and on my morning jogs but nothing seemed to work really. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. Safe words are another great solution. Outstanding! People who have chronic illnesses who will not recover from them are not lesser than healthy people. turns out all i was was fat. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. In the mean time, I'm just enjoying her massive belly and butt and great s**. and "You're shrinking down there!" God it's fun when your wife gets fat! If you try again and he continues to be defensive about this or wont take any steps to care for himself, then, OK, you have a new problem. I put weighed on for him . He wonders why idon't want sex anymore. She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). Love it a lot . My wife is the same way. By the way I'm also attractive for men, I'm a slim tonified girl with a nice ass. Finally a Fat Boyfriend. When we first started dating, he was a very hot, very . Applying to multiple unis with this course. I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. He lost that battle during lockdown and now he takes pride in being overgrown. But subtly overindulging on a regular basis sure is taking an effect! And he's a really cool guy-----BUT he doesn't workout, and never really has. He is forever touching and rubbing me, he has the best hands!! When we got married she told me she wanted me to become massively fat so No other woman would want me. Her sweet tooth is out of control, and I make sure it stays that way by having a constant supply of her favorites on hand at all times. Deniz Valiantis, who goes by the username @missdvaliantis on . That day, she started chowing down, and now she's a very pleasing 275 or so. I call him fatty and tubby, and sometimes when I text him, I call him Fat Boy. I thinks yeah whatever. A few more indulgent calories when I feel like a snack or a special dessert. In Covid I gained 51 pounds. I was at 225 so never thin. I need you to talk to a doctor about this. Purposely making a child obese is call abuse. Get a clue you fat slob. Its going to happen regardless. Well, I really, really porked cuz I gains 88 pounds. My wife loves it! By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. Im pleased that my girls have been accepted by their peers. That doesnt make you a bad person. Ladies, its not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. Watching someone gain weight and move from size to size is alluring. SoI am walking around with all this weight. I not only love to eat--a lot!-- but my husband is a gourmet chef. Yes, looking good is definitely important, but whats more important is to be healthy and have a long life. He is supportive, intelligent, has a great sense of humor this list goes on and on. A lot of the kids in my oldest daughter's preschool and now kindergarten are fat as well and it seems to becoming more and more common. What justification do people have for imposing that type of stress on someone? On top of that, he has everything to lose from you saying it. I'm enjoying this immensely of course, with the added bonus that he has started to become affected by his own cooking and add some pounds himself. They'd hate it!!!!! Get loads of people loving the pics I share of her. Whether it is actresses blowing up after pregnancy or menopause or billionaires with bulging bellies inflating with fat. If it doesnt mean as much to you, maybe you do it for him. Shes only 598lbs but she loves to eat and has no desire to stop gaining. Moreover, many people dont take action even after knowing because they think its fine as long as they look good, though its not. The s** is amazing for us both. Yes, custom clothes definitely help us out, too. Answer (1 of 8): Understanding that my view may not be of popular opinion, I whole heartedly believe attraction is a fundamental requirement in a relationship. My Boyfriend Loves Fat Women. I love my fat husband! Slap him and leave. I couldn't believe that was the guy I was about to sleep with. Maybe seeing my words will help me assess the situation. I've had real arguments with my friends about it. Me, myself and I. are my parents right to lock me in my room as punishment for drinking underage . She succeeded. I also love seeing successful people grow wider and wider. I guess because it came from someone else. When you were singles seeking a mate, you knew you needed to maintain your appeal . In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. I would really enjoy my wife gaining weight, but shes a gym rat. My life is sooo ******* sad, ask me anything. But when it comes to weight and food, I feel so helpless. The s** is amazing for us he loves my big bum. But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. get regular health check-ups, you probably wont be able to know. Also, attraction isnt purely physical. She said, eew, that's disgusting! Im not into intentional gaining or stuffing. The next time a "gift-giving holiday" rolls around, buy him a gym membership. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!! How much do you miss being slim and skinny? I dont think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. Life is pretty darn interesting living in a house full fatties. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. Healthy diet ( FREE ) chart for you to copy. In those 7 years, I've managed to get him 350 pounds or so and am still feeding him lots of calories. I do! My 1.5 year old is almost 80 lbs. Its just attractive to me. It's never just "A Little". My wife is plump, almost obese, I started to get a bit of a roll, as of late, she reached over, a few days ago, grabbed my baby bulge and said How cute, must be the mud pie and other deserts, I am proud of you. Now, I am very fit, or was, in the last year, still workout hard, but the bulge is growing. He was (and for me still is) like a God on Earth. Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Nice try attempting to identify with the population of heavier women, but you arent there yet, babe. I love grabbing a handful of flesh when we've having sex, and seeing that big round hairy mountain when I look up at him when I'm giving him a BJ. What is a healthy body weight for you as an individual. Be honest with yourself and him as to what you desire as well. There also may come a time when you express to him that your attraction level isnt what it was before I wouldnt do this right away, because that seems like a lot of pressure. Id also love for you to go to therapy, but I know thats a longer process. Then bring bigger pants on the honeymoon so he can enjoy himself. 3. Now my motivation is gonebecause of her and I really hope to get it back. Its not weird at all; many people actually find chubby spouses adorable instead of repulsive, thinking they resemble a cute little teddy bear, and cuddling with them at night would be extra comfortable. There is plenty of them out there. She weighed herself in July and she was 328. The s** is fantastic. She has had some good luck with a few online specialty retailers. Kinda wierd, huh? To be honest while I would support him if he wanted to lose the weight I dont think he would look good at his age back to his skinny old self. Hes stopped caring for a pet! I told her she could never be too fat for my liking and right then she said then she would grow for me and now she is a a beautiful 709 pound beauty and still stuffing herself with all the fattening foods that I buy for her. If we run we can make it in time!". Its making me concerned about you. I'm retired! There are all kinds of things that make up our attraction to a person, including our own state of mind. Your second paragraph was unnecessary and sounds like excuses. Here's the thing. So sweet! Nice. He said he's put on ~30 pounds in the last year. I thought I was the only one with a wife like that. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. Well, she got comfortable in the relationshp, and the weight started to creep up. Sophie-X. If his face stays handsome and his body blows up like a balloon but he can still f--k, no problem. Or was your success part of your reason for letting loose? What you must avoid is confessing that you're losing your attraction to him. I have always dreamed of growing a big, round, huge belly my whole life. Im just attracted to bigness. Being open and honest is what worked for us. Regarding your girlfriend's weight gain, it's worth having a conversation with her about it - one that focuses on her feelings, not yours. A: Let me begin with the easiest of your questions: This does not mean you never loved him. We all love to eat and we all love our fat and growing bodies as well. I smokes weed to keep the morning sickness under control, tho i didnt really have any, but i likes to smoke weed, so i had a excuse! The things I've enjoyed, the ups and downs of fat people because I'm fat, and any advice and tips & ideas I've picked up along the way that has helped me and may help you. I find the weight gain to be very sexy on her. For one, I don't like to see someone purposely deprive themselves of something or to be unhappy, but also because I'm scared he'll get skinny again. She had dieted down from around 400 for her wedding day and after we were married she told me that she hated every minute of the diet and that not being able to eat her favorite fattening foods was like torture. My husband will eat anything, and if I put it in front of him, he will finish it. . Buying him things that are too large helps, and encouraging him to wear sweatpants on weekend so he can eat all he wants but his pants won't be tight. Ugh, I feel dirty and guilty for enjoying it so much and doing sneaky things to encourage him to consume more. I write about; Fat people, Im fat, and I'm tired of being fat, what has worked for me to lose weight, the things I've learned about how hard it is, and the problems with that. I could do with some now actually! It sounds like your girls are much fatter and gaining weight faster than mine are. If it bothers you, you will always be mad atHim for encouraging you to pack on some pounds. Anxious to hit 300 and then on to 350. My wife is very fat now I love the curves saggy belly think she is around 380 pounds. Be more like a friend before acting like a girlfriend. I dont need to make it a resolution. It's not going as well as planned and there are arguments and tantrums everyday. He says the s** is beyond awesome. My wifes been quietly adding bigger portions to my plate and offering dessert. I started binge eating during the pandemic and I have been struggling with my weight. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? My wife loves to serve me a massive portion,casually mentioning that I do not have to eat it all. Please, always consult with a Licensed P. or your Local Doctor for advice if you need to. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. When I met him he weighed 185-190 and looked sooo good. We have been married for 16 years and we have 2 children, 14 and 12. Is he feeling that too? He came back 20 pounds heavier. Oh yes. Is it hopeless? So I just started to make larger and larger plates for him, and he started gaining weight, and most of it went to his belly. If he has a health issue, thats for him and his doctor to discuss NOT you. Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. Its not you can be , its you are unhealthy when you are fat. I've been married for the past 5 years and I was about 300lbs back then and now I've gained to a about 400lb . He likes to lay next to me facing me and push our bellys together. I don't know what to do. I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. Early on I made it clear that he would eat until I decided he was full enough, and then and only then could we fool around. Now super SAGY all over. I understand that. Did your husband ask you to gain for him initially or did you just happen to gain and could tell he liked it and continued getting bigger? Its not my hubby getting fat, its me!! I'm trying really hard to back off and not try to influence him, but I'm dealing with the internal argument of how to tell him this. It's a challenge that many of us don't meet. She's gorgeous, greedy and very sexy. She has insisted that my brother get fat as well. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. Startle him into a state of frenzy with, "Shit, babe! A lot of people have been facing worse mental health during the pandemic, but even though its pretty normal and common right now, its still absolutely worth taking seriously. Master Age: 22. We've been married for 7 years. I see it as lazy. I wish and Im fairly certain youd agree that weight didnt have such a cultural significance placed on it. And why? Seems like you dont mind that shes heavier now, too. My belly is sticking out right now from yet another demonstration of my lack of self control. I dont know how to bring this up. Huge sagging belly and t***. I started at about 200 after gaining 30lbs from COVID, I think that's what encouraged her to ask me to gain weight. Well more and more breaks now as he loses his breath pretty easy now. Lucky man. Her fatter friends just was always snacking. Oh, and I'd grown one whole inch taller in those 17 years since freshman year. Without a healthy s e x life, he wouldnt have doubled his weight so quickly (3 years). (I also want to be clear that its beyond beyond beyond beyond fine to gain 40 pounds at any time, and its especially fine to gain 40 pounds during a years-long pandemic. I have been dating this guy for over 2 years now. No way jose! She was positiveky ecstatic and wasted no time in going back to her old eating habits. Or should I just let go and let the inner fatty out/let the seems pop? Over the first year, I increased his portion sizes and at our first anniversary he weighed in at 250, a 70 pound gain. It really sounds like you are both having a great time. This site is owned and operated by John J. He's grown out of some of his clothes, he's got a noticeable double chin, he has a round belly, chubby cheeks, even his chest is softening up. From hair trends to relationship advice, our daily newsletter has everything you need to sound like a person whos on TikTok, even if you arent. This is because its easier to burn fat after a bulk, and having surplus calories will make it easier to build and preserve muscles to increase the metabolic rate during sleep, which will eventually lead to weight loss. Im a three hundred pounder and wish my gut would get more attention. My hopes are the same for my girls. . I new he likes big girls . Mine lost about 70lbs and has same issue with arms and legs but she says she will never gain it back. Can you take walks with the dog together? FWIW, he was pretty thin before, and he's now a few pounds shy of 200, apparently. Listen to what he says and how he responds. He has an actual ass. He calls it belly s**, but it usually leads to the real thing. You can be unhealthy when you are fat or skinny. If you do not receive your email shortly, please check your spam folder. You might say something like: Im very sad because I feel like we arent as connected or romantic as before, and I feel like Ive lost some of my attraction to you. Plus, people have divorced for far, far less. She was 275 now 180. I'll bet they ready have physical limitations that will affect their health down the line. I'm really turned off by overweight guys and just the feeling of his belly makes me cringe. That was a little over a year ago and now I have a 520lb wife and a 2 little girls that very much take after their mom. Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. Also, put melted butter on everything including pizza (it tastes great!) My kind of man! She was maybe 120and has gained maybe 15 or so. She never verbally discussed it with me but the bigger I kept getting the lovemaking and bigger fattening meals just kept coming. She is still breast feeding our youngest and needs to be pumped on a daily basis and since she is so huge, she has difficulty doing it herself. Its just how I feel about it. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (Im 55 and WAS about 125 pounds). But more skinny than fat. She's well over 350 now, but won't weight herself anymore. I'm at 250 now and looking at 350. My ball gut is going to hang halfway to my knees. Its interesting to see how some people are comfortable in the club and others are fighting it. Make sure a friend . Morris McLennan as a kid. We'all think he looks like a real healthy plump boy. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. Definitely a large and in charge dude! (the more dangerous of the two) stored in the internal organs and is thus really hard to notice. I'm afraid he'll think I've been up to something to no good this whole time, when it's mostly just me appreciating his body. Lot - I 'm not that tall so it 's fun when your wife gets fat them are not than. 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