Ive been married almost nine years, which is a drop in the bucket compared to some marriages, but certainly longer than half a second. We have a great marriage but it hasnt been a bed of roses, and I have the hair loss to prove it. Once were married (and even now but I know for some people its not) were each others #1 priority. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve. I think your husband needs to ask his sister SPECIFICALLY in no uncertain terms, if youre invited. January 15, 2013, 11:26 am. it was known that their wasnt enough tickets for me so I and our three children would have to stay back at the MIL house where there would be people there getting ready for the graduation party. but does that exclude you from ever interacting with anyone who doesnt like your spouse? But, you don't want to then walk around resenting the party host, or even having negative feelings toward other friends of yours who attended the party despite your lack of invitation. It's a going away party which is almost always a "more the merrier" type of party. "What's this? You can't get upset with friends that exclude you when you don't ask them to do things, either. January 18, 2013, 9:54 pm. He leaves you confused. is really bizarre. Maybe shes one of those people who ruins a good time- we often read letters about them- Theres that one person who gets drunk and starts fights, or doesnt know how to act in public and makes everyone uncomfortable. Maybe you believe you did nothing wrong, and maybe youre totally right. January 15, 2013, 1:55 pm, I could understand if were talking a 37th or 43rd birthday but 40? Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future. But like anything else? reader, Honeypie+, writes (4 May 2014): A He says things like:Shall I come over after dinner? and How about we have a sleepover after Ive been out with the boys?. GatorGirl I have a wonderful husband, but I do not get along with his family. But the husband has already decided to go, whether or not he should, and the LW is just going to have to deal with that in the best way she can, I guess. January 15, 2013, 10:56 am. No . Im My step-siblings hated my mother, and for 30 years excluded me from family events in spite of my efforts to develop relationships and get along. Better to nip this in the bud. He says that he understands why Im hurt and doesnt deny that I was purposely excluded, but, at the end of the day, the greater slight would be to his sister if he was not there to support her. @katie I think that would be the worst thing to do, everything I have read about creating a strong marriage means that the husband should choose the wife or at least they need to come to a decision together and present a united front. My situation is sort of similar to yours, but not as drastic. The family likely already knows this or will find out. I am lucky that my husbands family is nice. Feb. 6, 2019. January 15, 2013, 11:33 am. Idk help ! Talk to him let him know how hurt this has made you.Show him all thease comments.My final word is he should have your back no matter whattell him I said so. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and have known him well for about 7 years. Try working with him to find ways to make it easier for him. Add your answer to this question! We have been together for so long, but it's been over a year since I've seen his family without being invited over. (I was bored today.) theattack Uh huh. If you guys are going to build a future together, this is something youre going to have to get past at some point. Theres not a clear-cut line, but hes going very far out of his way in this scenario. The first was the hostess claimed I wasnt invited because another regular at the party always got heated about politics and she thought I instigated it. LW, Id look into this a bit more! Why hasnt the husband asked his sister why you were left off of the invitation? Fabelle I know that I am not perfect, but neither are they, yet, I have tried very hard to fit in because I really loved them and wanted to be a big part of his family. Feeling "meh" about them is not a reason to invite one but not the other. Agreed! 2. You just proved why I never recommend dating people who have friends of the opposite sex, even more if those friends are single. GatorGirl And, if your scenario is the case, he should demand that his wife get some serious counseling and mend the rifts she has torn in their family. If my love feels he must visit his awful sister, he is free to go with my best wishes Ill plan FUN things to do with friends, other family members, and grandchildren while hes gone! January 15, 2013, 11:38 am. January 15, 2013, 12:05 pm. Imagine if your bf/husband and your siblings behaved like this? And Im still making compromises to protect my family my husband, and my MIL from their own familys particular brand of nasty. usually by that time in your life, you have a mortgage, kids, whatever, stupid stuff that ties you down and doesnt let you just party whenever you want with whoever you want. LW, just to echo the question others have had above, how do you know for sure you werent invited? But if he NEVER invites you out, when the group is big and mixed, he just doesnt want to spend time with you. It is okay to say "I'd really like to go. Make his sister look like a jerk and then there would be no reason for you two not to patch things up. If its just because he thinks its too soon, I kinda get it, but still needs a conversation, Sounds like hes cheating on you or only using you for sex, doesnt want you around his friends and you are still with him. Your husband loves his family and has a right to spend time with them with and without you. I found this blog because I am going through something dead on. ah, but you see, it takes two to make drama happen if you dont feed it, it doesnt grow. In my defense, it was a surprise party. January 15, 2013, 11:17 am. I mean, we all have limits but short of a situation like that one letter about the sister getting pregnant by my (ex)husband type actions, my sister will always have a roof over her head as long as I have one to give. Mind you this is a 34 year old woman! Your email address will not be published. It can cause deep resentment and strain upon your marriage when your spouse allows that to happen. i feel bad for that couple, theattack GatorGirl Well I dont know about him but things that are special to me I want them to myself. (Heres How to Handle It), 24+ Clean Comebacks for Bullies Thatll Make You Smile, Is My Boss a Narcissist Quiz (10 Questions to Help You Find Out! Usually because he has vital nights out with the boys hes forgotten about. The LW cant go into these dramatics about cracks in her marriage and expect people to be on her side without justifying why the exclusion is unfair (and I think it has to be a REALLY bad reason, like race or religion or the in-laws being abusive, for her to be this upset). That's definitely not a good reason either, but don't accuse him of something just in case it wasn't his fault you weren't invited. The wedding situation seems especially odd because weddings are where two people become a family, so to excluse someone elses spouse on the basis of them not being family at an event where you are becoming a family with your SO is pretty hilariously hypocritical. GatorGirl This means hes not just avoiding a certain person or an awkward situation, hes trying to keep you and this part of his life a secret for some reason. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at wendy@dearwendy.com. He should stand besides his wife. One guy passed out drunk on the girl's couch and then woke up and groped her multiple times before she literally pushed him out the door One guy pleased himself in bed (without a request from the. Unless she has committed some heinous crime against the SIL the LW has every right to be upset, in my opinion. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. I feel strongly that my husband should decline a family invitation when I am excluded and that his acceptance of the invitation would break down the integrity of our marriage. His sister got engaged recently and . I think she should call the sister-in-law directly and try to find out whether there is a problem. Props! Continue this for a while. January 15, 2013, 11:11 am. Excluded from SILs Birthday. On the other hand, its possible that hes embarrassed about his family and doesnt want you to meet them as hes worried about what youll think. You sound really co-dependant. Related 14 Signs your boyfriend is done with your relationship. The integrity of my marriage is threatened! It would be what the heck did I do to offend them so much?. Yes, the LW should act like an adult, of course. I'm going to stand here with a sour puss on my face until someone does SOMETHING about all this debauchery.") Our family felt sort of uncomfortable around her, but she was still invited to events & everyone was polite. They mostly did it when I was alone so I think that he thought that I was being too sensitive. Bit of an age gap there, not horribly massive but considering he is 30 might be just enough to cause some frictions. However, maybe you're confused about why you weren't invited, and can't really think of a reason. Also, storytime becausealthough its not totally similarI keep thinking about it: A few years ago, my uncle was dating this married woman. jlyfsh I meant that I would be upset over it- it doesnt seem like the LW is though, shes only upset because her husband wants to go. Let him go spend time with them and be thankful that you dont have to partake in a boring small birthday dinner with some people that it sounds like you dont really enjoy! January 15, 2013, 3:56 pm. Hes never once tagged you in anything on social media, not ever. It makes me wonder if the LWs attitude has been me/us vs. your family from the beginning. Im not saying dont celebrate but Boston to Chicago, really? Like Wendy said, Im guessing there are serious issues that led to this very blatant exclusion, and Im sure the degree of their legitimacy depends on how you talk to. If you don't want to drive your boyfriend around so he could prepare for a party you're not going to, you could have said "I can appreciate that your car is not working. Anyway, my cousin decided to stay with his wife after a separation of several monthsI know a few people encouraged him to leave her, but pretty much everyone just said Ill support whatever you decide to do. Everyone acted like adults, because it was his decision and in the end it wasnt truly our business. April 7, 2018, 4:40 pm, Sorry but that is unacceptable,unless she has harmed his family in some way which has not been claimed. January 15, 2013, 12:20 pm. I hope the information in this article helps you narrow down what this may be. January 15, 2013, 11:56 am. Dont let others decide how your time as a couple is to be spent. Oh so hard to give advice without more information. January 15, 2013, 1:50 pm, But how do you feel about adults who celebrate their half birthdays?, lets_be_honest January 15, 2013, 10:02 am. I would actually wait a little longer than the morning. Why wasn't I invited?" A call to the SIL will LIKELY clear it up. Maybe you should think if there was any other time he upset you or made feel bad? POT? Maybe her MIL has mamas boy issues and made it sound to the SIL like the LW would never be willing to come all the way to Chicago for a party in order to get her special boy to come out by himself. Sue Jones I imagine that this situation is similar; SIL gets what she wants, and LW gets to feel like an ass. But has chosen not to. The thing is, I always invite him, especially if were hanging out together and Im making plans for that evening. I got my panties all in a bunch in the first months I knew them because they never invited me places, but . January 16, 2013, 4:03 pm. Im with GG that he should still maintain a relationship with his family, but traveling that far is way too much for an event his wife wasnt invited to. January 15, 2013, 10:34 am. Maybe she didnt give the story because its not that interesting of a story? So be honest with yourself about why youve been excluded. Dear partner was going to go anyway, hadnt breathed a word of any of it- even about seeing them. I am using my vacation this year to help my sister move across the country for her new job. January 15, 2013, 9:43 am. reader, chigirl+, writes (3 May 2014): A I guess theres a fine line, but you KNOW it when you see itIm fine with people celebrating (like I said, Im all for partying), but when they make it this giant, super-special thing that you BETTER attend OR ELSE, its kind of self-centered & annoying to me. Either invite them both or dont invite either of them. Mikel Arteta warns Graham Potters reign will be unsustainable if Chelsea keep losing, Justin Bieber abruptly cancels most world tour dates after health scare, Creed III review: Stallone-free debut from Michael B Jordan bashes life into the boxing movie genre, Feast on these incredible snaps from the National Geographic Traveller Photography Awards, Therapy has helped me learn more about myself than I could ever have imagined, Do not sell or share my personal information. Its not always easy. I was sure youd just delete my comment. Soeven though that person may be nice, and kind, and wonderful, they may not top the list of "people I want to invite to a party". Try and mess with our family. There is no logical reason she couldn't go. I dont think so. It was horrible and it was a direct response to my personality. How to talk to him about it in the morning ? Yeah, I feel like theres been a few letters like this & theres always SOME kind of hint We just got married a year ago & the family never warmed to me. seems to be a common reason. If hes not willing to do that, then I think something fishy is going on. Girls keep commenting on his Facebook profile with random in jokes, and you have no idea who they are. LW did not express surprise, did not mention if she spoke to SiL, did not mention if this was the first time, did not mention all kinds of potentially important things. 1. Feeling left out is never an easy thing to deal with, so if you weren't invited somewhere, follow these five steps and you're guaranteed to feel better about whatever situation is bothering you. no hard feelings (hopefully? I could understand getting really pissed about this, both with the SIL and the husband. So don't resent anyone; carrying around negative energy never does any good anyway. Sometimes when someone is being a total douche, you just gotta sit back and allow them to show their cards. Total BS. For shame. I played a major part in the way the backyard turned out. They get the best of both worlds in that scenario. If it was her decision not to invite you, hopefully shed explain why. I had this happen to me in one of my past relationships, and it was an early warning sign that they was losing interest in our relationship and no longer cared about us. is causing him to abandon his wife for the weekend, travel to Chicago to party, spend money on airfare and whatnot, and she has absolutely no say because its his family? So let your husband go to the party, stop pitting him against his family, and stop basing the stability of your marraige on his willingness to dump his family for you. This makes it sound like something is off in a marriage, when one person is this upset and cant even talk to their spouse about it. Nov. 11 2013 at 6:17 pm. God is the best marriage counselor. January 17, 2013, 4:26 pm. January 17, 2013, 4:11 pm. January 17, 2013, 1:53 pm. Thankfully, we live far away from this SIL, and his other sister feels as I do about the Clampetts, so we have each other with whom to commiserate. I would maybe get it if it was a guys weekend or somethingbut a family birthday party? He may be loyal today but eventually he will question your love for him. January 15, 2013, 2:11 pm. Skyblossom However, this doesn't seem like one of those times. January 15, 2013, 4:03 pm, Good update! Unless you're long-distance, you neglected to invite him or your boyfriend is out of town, there are very few excuses that will fly if this happens. Perhaps that is one reason why FSIL doesnt like you so much. If the sister-in-law is being passive aggressive about some minor offense, her husband should be standing up for her and trying to straighten out the problem. Sue Jones I was upset with him doing this to me many times. I think he should have invited you, or asked the host if it was okay to invite you and then invited you. Lianne Non hereditary Hair loss? This is something for Sigmund Freud..I say find a great counselor beg him to attend witb you if he is unwilling then divorce as quickly as u can and be prepared for the guilt trip he will attempt to lay on you for over reacting simply reply, abusive degrading mean bullies hurting me repeatedly are not acceptable and anyone who is okay with the pain they are intentionally subjecting me to and going out of their way to ensure they break my heart repeatedly has only been heightened because the person Ive trusted most in my life the person I have given my heart and soul to love and protect is the one who could easily prevent it. GatorGirl Regardless what the reason is and whether its justified and, yes, I do believe there could be justification for excluding a family members spouse to your party though it would have to be a really big deal the bottom line is that your husband has been invited and you havent and now you both have some decisions to make. Lindsay Help me get over being excluded from a bf's family event. But the husband is definitely in the wrong for choosing to go to this party without his wife. This never feels good, but you can never control how other people feel. In my family/friends we are pretty informal, so even its not explicit plus ones are always assumed to be invited. If he did not succeed, the LW would at least know that he tried and together they could make a decision about whether he should go to Chicago without her. You've accepted that you weren't invited, for whatever reason, which is good. Skyblossom Oh yeah, that letter does sound familiar. I might have an answer then. Addie Pray Ok, I think this is more of a rant, but Im really annoyed by it. I'm worried that down the line she'll find herself treated like a doormat. This doesnt necessarily mean hes ashamed of you for being you. Just wait until your MIL, SIL, FIL, fight to keep you out of events to the point where he has no free time with you. Agree about the need for better communication skills and firmly expressing needs (and drawing boundaries). Why does her husband have to ask his sister why she wasnt invited, why cant the LW just grow some ladyballs and ask herself if it is such a big deal. So how was hubby invited? seriously, why would you even want to go if they are just a bunch of terrible people who hate you for no reason and would go to such lengths to let you know how they feel? (& What To Do). Why doesnt he ask his sister why his wife wasnt invited? Login first I do think this is totally unacceptable a married couple is a unit. There must be a reason. Part of HuffPost News. I always imagine Im giving advice to one of my friends after reading letters and I feel like the first question I would ask is, WHY do you think you werent invited. January 15, 2013, 10:28 am. For these reasons, talk to your close friends, preferably ones who know the party thrower or host. Obviously things dont go as well when you are there since you arent upset that you didnt get invited- just that your husband is going. January 15, 2013, 10:08 pm. it doesnt matter what lw did actually. 39 Niya We are together for maybe 4-5 months, so youre right on that one, and as for his friends, I would understand that as well, I dont think its a secret that people dont always get along and love everyone, I would still prefer that which ever is the case, he would actually tell me.. Will talk about it, guess theres no choice, thank you! Not spouses of anyone, no children, just the original family. I really think you should be talking to your boyfriend about this, we can't give you any reasonable advise based on the 2 sentence conversation you guys had. He didn't want you there, since he had ample opportunities to invite you to the party. Then I wonder, are you sure you are not invited? How to Deal with a Roommate Who Is Inconsiderate: 10 Tips! I see how I may have sounded extreme by saying that my husbands acceptance of this invitation shakes the integrity of our marriage. While this is somewhat understandable, it can still hurt, but at least you know that's the reason. January 15, 2013, 11:28 am, I dont think it compromises the integrity of the marriage, but it does put a wedge between the husband and the wife where he could have used the opportunity to solidify how much he cares for her., Brigitte Roommate Stays in Room All Day? Itd be to his benefit, but still not his duty. I was nodding my head in agreement and shes right, if this slight ruins the foundation of the LWs marriage, there are much bigger problems. Theres no reason to put everybody out because youre turning _____ old. Even if theres no bad blood between the LW and the SIL, maybe one of the other in-laws is horrible and in order to exclude that person, the SIL has to exclude all spouses. Or I cant imagine why theyd exclude me, everything seemed fine the last time we got together., If I thought everything was fine between my SIL and I, or my husbands family and I, and out of the blue I was not invited to a family celebration, my first thought would not be Alas! nope. If this were the first time you felt this way you probably wouldn't have posted. You dont care who messes with your home life. Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I agree. However, Im a people pleaser. Sorry youre so miserable and bitter. How does she know she wasnt invited? Formal party? On the other hand, it's also on the BF to vocalize his own needs with regards to handling her anxiety in an understanding and empathetic way, and making assumptions for her on her potential needs is bullshit. If you are calm enough to take the high road, usually you are clear enough to set boundaries.and if her hubby is just being rude and hopping on the bandwagon (if that is whats going on) then it will be clear to her. . Even if my SO said he wouldnt bc of me, I still think Id tell him to go. You told him how you felt and he brushed it off. I also have Catholic guilt. My answer remains the same in that the husband should not go, although Id modify it to the SIL and say just dont invite either of them. drawing unnecessary lines in the sand is just making the problem worse and worse for everyone involved. Your. and b) its cool of you to be gracious and thank everyone for the advice when so many of us, myself included, were pretty critical of you. Do you two get along?If you do please pick up the phone and just like call her. Frankly, I am not about to sign onto something like that, especially when LWs the integrity of our marriage bleat made me suspect that she is the real problem. 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