I hope you join our group meetings to get the support that means so much when we feel this alone. Ive been married for 35 years, and cant take it anymore. I was so confused, but after 3 painful months once he had time to think about it, and during a break so he had time to think (because he's normally quite stressed and busy) about it, he realized what he had done, and then he came back and tried to help me through all the pain that he had caused by all of a sudden just closing up to me. He uses the silent treatment, usually for a couple days, and then he relents only when I am being nice. We are meeting after COVID and I really want to see him and i still love him but i dont know how to cope with him being this way. I started to read a lot about it, especially when I was down and needed an explanation for how he treated me. I am also fearful Im looking at the situation as if he were NT. Now he says I abandoned him and Im an abuser. It didnt even make any sense to you why you were fighting. I feel like my life is passing me by. I have serious concerns that my husband might have Aspergers. Sunday he stopped replying to my texts. It feels very good to meet someone who can follow you in conversations that you can't have with most people. Leave him be..for nowstop thinking about what he is doing or thinking. With a personality difficulty, its entitlement. I called his parents and his sister to tell them how much I loved him and that I respected his need for space and that my thoughts and prayers were with them all especially my boyfriend. His father had narcissism and was very ugly about my husbands learning disabilities. I really like her a lot, shes an unbelievably beautiful, poetic person, who has such a true heart. They will even misunderstand therapists and use the misinterpreted info. I'm willing to take baby steps to restore the relationship, but if he isn't going to budge or even talk about how he feels, then it seems pointless. Im confused. I tried to change the subject, and in a very charming way, she stopped on the sidewalk,looked directly in my eyes, smiled, and asked "do you like me?" He has very polished social skills. This person was a paradox, somehow more mature than everyone else and yet vibrant with a childlike innocence. Key points. I didnt even know my son was an aspie until I disapproved of his girl friend and he shut himself out. Wow, Im so glad I found this page, with current posts still flowing in! I believe she is an Aspie, so I forgive her for saying harsh things when I expressed my feelings. Well see. He simply shuts down and will not respond to the questions which I deserve to know. Like he said, this is how he is. For anyone with AS needing to back off in a relationship -- talk it through, write it, email it, whatever, but don't make the mistake I did. I love him more than I have loved anyone and am willing to make long term compromises in order to make our NT/ND relationship work but I feel like all the major sacrifices are coming from me. Its been almost a year n half since he spoke to any of us in the family. In fact, I think the signs were all there and his folks just never paid attention to them. Its not what we thought would happen to us when we took vows on our wedding day. Ive been slowly setting boundaries but this last one of no more name calling has set him into a silent shutdown for a week so far. The cookies is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Necessary". My boyfriend knows I have anxiety issues and that his silent treatment only makes them worse, and yet he seems incapable of doing anything about it. I hurt him and he has recoiled to a point of no return. I dont get talk support unless I basically ask for it. I have interests that I share with few people and like my time alone. He is cold cruel and he refused to go get diagnosed. FG B, 1,000s of times, whre, dead fish, no spring chicken, mentally ill, bipolar, crazy like insert name here, brooding, hypocrite, liarI cant even remember them all. Once the smoke cleared, you tried hard to understand why your partner was so upset. This is happening to me too. We are amazing together when times are good but any criticism he cant take. He told me upfront when we started dating that he was an Aspie. Common symptoms of Asperger's that may impact social interaction or communication include: Problems making or maintaining friendships. I have told him I love him, that I want to work things out and willing to stand by his side. When hes out he falls back into as I call it living in his own world. If this one ends I can't see trying again. Hes my absolute everything and my whole life and future is with him. Details please. I tried to keep it neutral but somehow, it just works better when explained from a male viewpoint. So i wish him all the best and since i've realised that our relationship was just impossible even though we both tried so hard to make it work, i feel much better now. The aspie may find it easier to go quiet and say nothing than to speak their mind. Click on the image below to request a free chapter. Good evening all. I get that he doesnt feel safe. They need very specialized therapists. We both have a high iq, me 130 and he 165. He is giving me the silent treatment and I am completely devastated. Its just really sad and scary and hard. Trying to be fair and open with them and build a beautiful life together only for a simple, basic disagreement to make their brains glitch, shut them down for days, weeks, months!! 3. He asked me a month before, how are you feeling about me and my behavior. When my partner abuses me, I clearly state that I do not take responsibility for his behaviour. We are both bright and have completed graduate degrees, but have had many struggles in our marriage as well as in maintaining friendships. Other quirks. I compromised for 6 years. Why Do Aspies Suddenly Back-Off in Relationships? If all aspies were completely alike and predictible, they'd be a stereotype but they're not. Making friends can cause anxiety because of the high expectations people set and any self-consciousness people with autism may experience. He has left us for the second time and has discarded me ( as have his family ) after 25 years and 4 children . Pneumonia, cancer and serious but non-life threatening illnesses are his time to take a vacation with friends. I broke up because he would just abruptly leave me and go out with friends so I got the hint I wasn't that important to him. NTs tend to be very dramatic when expressing emotions which feels like they are being manipulative. My ex aspie partner doesnt even want anything to do with his own child. I was ok w taking space cuz we still texted a cpl times a day. the whole relationship is completely strained, sex was good but robotic like a routine pattern.a cuddle not a warm embrace. He went through a period when he did not know what to do with his life, I tried to help but became frustrated with both the lack of direction as well as the lack of communication. I felt better when I stopped pretending and covering for him and us. You are generous to give so much time. I read a book a few years ago on "sociopaths in the workplace" and I was stunned by the figures. Ive been feeling like Im going mad with frustration. Yes it is heartbreaking but also a symptom of the terror that can grow in the mind of an autistic person. Familiarize yourself with the signs, sometimes known as the seven stages of trauma bonding. In your formative years, you do very little time management and it's usually your parents who set alarms and cajole you out of bed, harass you into getting dressed, slog through the breakfast routine, push you into the car and drop you off at school. Simple things he just said he was not going to do or change for me or anyone. my daughter , runs around school drop offs and yet here I am , writing on a blog and hes gone into shut down , buggered by a small argument .hes packed his suit case and left. He would talk about general stuff (like how is he doing), but never about relationship where I wanted to talk about how we can work things out. I'm confused and frustrated. To them, they're just unable to cope with the TV being moved to the opposite side of the room. It still crushes the heart and mind of the NT who wants connection and peace. His eyes show no soul inside. This is one of the biggest reasons. I love him dearly and am beside myself with anxiety. If so, they'll typically add 12.5 mg each week until the dosage provides the desired . I did ask him if he had Aspergers and thats when all the blocking happened. The pain and trauma that these people bring to your life Will make you doubt your very own self. I've been dating an undiagnosed AS for a couple of months. Please, take your focus off him and onto you and your child. In his world, gaming during every free minute has nothing do with his love. It's not so easy for him. Did he really never love me? I did approach him with what I had researched but he was totally insulted. She has cut off our entire family. We have four kids, 11, 9, and 5-yr old twins, one of whom was diagnosed ASD several years ago. Look in the mirror and adsk You if you are happyx. I have in other comments recently identified as having self-recognized (male) Aspie characteristics (and online tests I've seem to lean heavily in that direction). Doesnt do check ins or check ups on me. Usually we listen on the radio (NPR) and I had thought (wrongly, it turned out) that he knew one function of the radio was to prevent distracting conversation. Many of us with Aspergers grew up with family members who we couldn't trust and when a parent is one of those, a lot of our issues go underground, in which case we won't be sharing with you the straw that broke the camel's back, and we will seem very mysterious (not in a good way). He will not want to discuss your tender feelings. It was confusing for you to see these two different people emerge, one in public and one in private. He went through all of our savings had a meltdown that lasted for 12 months and then wanted to come home. It is going to take me awhile to pick up all the destruction he left behind.. he has caused us so many problems .. to me it is not worth staying or fighting because they cant change long term.. they are who they are.. we will be the ones that have to change everything to be with them and Im not interested in spending the rest of my life on egg shells.. you should consider the same.. you will live a life of constant rejection.. nobody deserves that.. Im reading the comments, all of them are close to my reality and yours is the closest. Me too I am so defeated ar the moment I agrree I am not the my best oerson in this relationshio. I care about her and want my friend back. Nevertheless, I'll try to point out some possibilities. We know that many problems cannot be fixed. I let him come back because I felt sorry for him, (aspie that he is) and he started in 10 times worse than he than he was before he left. Its been quite a whirlwind, with so many stops and starts. Tbh at this point I already suspected he may be ASD or on the spectrum. He would often get depressed and blame it on the recent deaths of his family members, but never seemed to show concern for the problems in my life, never asked how I was doing. I have spent 10 years with an undiagnosed aspie, it was only when I started googling his behaviour from something on the tele, that I found out about aspies. This time, I want to look at self esteem and depression; Self Esteem The aspie relationship with themselves is tedious at best. Ive been driving myself nuts since then. Of course there is hope - but focus on yourself, not your spouse. Can you plz let me know as soon as possible if you are offering evaluation appointments too? So if he wont talk to the Rabbi or a psychologist, take yourself and the kids to these professionals. Of course he is breaking a promise to you to be faithful, but more importantly he fails to understand how hurtful his behavior is to you. Its a difficulty, not an excuse. So is mine. Similarly, manipulative behaviour can often come across as simply "needy". They may have even suspected infidelity. I am completely helpless and i have no idea what to do. She is the one instigating most of our chatting in the first place. Whether intentionally or not if someone cuts youit still bleeds and hurts! Its called sulking or Silent Treatment or Ghosting. As a matter of fact some people(not just Aspies its a general psychological problem that can happen to anyone) deal with that kind of abuse by actually trying to make sure no one likes them so they can stay in their comfort zone. Friends of he's encouraged me to pursue him as he is shy, telling me that he wanted to be in a loving relationship with me, however once I made some caring moves toward him he pushed me away! My biggest problem is once he hits a long enough period of time of childish silence by the time hes done Im done! You saw shifts, where the eyes that once glittered with unbridled passion and wonder went flat and dark. He cant lie very well. I felt alone all the time, even though he was phisically there. Note Im a very social person. Go now. I tried silence that did not work then one day he just said we are finished would not speak to me so I left and have filed for an annulment. But Im tired of being emotionally and verbally abused. I texted him last night and said asked you to call . He constantly will just get dressed and leave and then come back surprised I got worried about him. She told me she was going to pull away. I was shocked. Tell me what do I need to do? However, the acting gets draining, fuel runs out, and traits shine through. It's so sad and hard to give up this wonderful person. 'Sa tonight', the same thing happened to me with my AS friend. What if this person is your child? You felt like you were on a new wavelength, and so you were absorbed in this world with this new love who had so many interesting insights and strong feelings. I love him anyway. I do not want to grow in this relationship if it is all in my head. And I do it right back so he understands how cruel it is. He supposedly had many stalkers, told elaborate stories and his exs were supposedly all too needy or crazy (red flags I wish I noticed early on). It is not a particularly serious problem, but it feels like it at times, as I can be overly sensitive. Maybe you can not see through healthy eyes because you have issues from your own past. Its been two months and as much as I love him, I know hes capable of doing this again when any conflict arises. I have known him for two years and in the relationship a year. Few weeks after we reconnected and decided to start over again. I am so sorry Peter. So much of the blog and comments resonate with what is happening in my own marriage. He does it in response to me getting angry and yelling at him. Is overwhelming. I need to try to make friends with the other introverts. I need advice please. Ive mentioned counselling before. Thank you for your question. I said I'd like to check in and see how she is feeling and tell her how I feel. His end point was that, this time apart will help me in knowing if I want to be in a relationship with him, as he will not be able to give me what I want in terms empathy, affection etc from that point onwards I started to understand that he has actually taken time to reflect on his behaviour and doesnt want to ruin my life or make me unhappy, as he is not going to be able to change his ways. He doesnt message or call. For the neurotypical: Eventually, things started to get weird. I feel that if I were to slip out of his life at this point he wouldnt even notice. I have lived this. The more I went towards him, the worse it got, the more I couldnt do anything right, the more I became the enemy. I totally relate to this . Got upset if I said he was good at anything. I remember thinking now this is living. Hes so resistant to being diagnosed, he refuses clearly. Now of course it is like we lost her completely. I often am scared that I am moving forward and he is just standing still enjoying the company ut not really growing with me. Got defensive over nothing. His father is dying and things will definitely change. Not willing to talk/not willing to engage. He ghosted me out of the blue after one fight / tantrum he created, and stopped answering my messages, and never even broke up with me. It's a difficult question and the answers would vary considerably from one person to another and would depend greatly on the circumstances. He never starts a conversation. But it kills me. Im 56 now and I shouted last night after trying calmly to sort a small misunderstanding out. But the best part was that they loved those parts of you that you had to hide from everyone else. Husband is a diagnosed level 1 Aspergers about 4 years ago . I can't thank all of you enough that have posted here. He calls me a bully. If you are not married, and do not have kids, get past trying to save them. Now looking back, he may not have gotten the gist of "proactive" an misinterpreted what I was requesting as a committed relationship. My husband worshipped me. Thank you for your reply. I was made to understand this? i feel I have wasted years on this man who blames me for his misery yet i have devoted my life to our family . He would stay up late and I woke up to bring him to bed and as soon as I started cuddling with him he breaks it off to me " I don't thinks this is working any more" I thought he was joking! I know that she cares about me and she knows that she doesnt want to lose me , thats why she cant do anything , Thats why she cant just leave, but it still scares me, what if she never recovers from this? He has his family, he has to work through his fear and anxiety which would be extreme at the moment. While it is unlikely he will understand your hurt feelings, he probably can understand that he has broken an important vow. NTs find this action offensive but its actually in their best interest. Im accepting that its over. She also had a boyfriend. This person had been abused, overlooked, mistreated, and devalued. Like everyone else I am so relieved to not feel so alone. Like we could be on a call but not having to even speak, which to me tells me she enjoyed my company without me having to entertain all the time. We had been hanging out for a few weeks, finally kissed, and then I havent seen her since. Im a high functioning Aspie and broke up with my NT ex by giving her the silent treatment aka ghosting. Im going to die in this nothingness. Withdrawing from a stressful situation quickly deescalates and stops the source of pain. Been with my husband for 12! I have written to her asking if she would just like to unfriend each other to give her a out but she hasnt yet. After 2 years with an undiagnosed man with Aspergers (I have taught public school for 32 years and we know autism), I am left with crippling anxiety and a complete lack of equilibrium. You are a free human being who can decide for herself if she wants time apart or if she wants to be in this relationship. But I feel he is confused, Hi Ashley I am going through similar situation. He went from loving me to cutting me out of his life behaving like he was single, telling me things had changed and he never loved me. Dealing with the same. Without empathy, NeuroDiverse folks need a strong moral code to keep from slipping into narcissism. I understand its is autism but it hurts me because I love him dearly but he cant see a future with me. Not understanding what he was really feeling, I took it as a rejection. Well we have kids (not planned) and both have autism. Do you agree with my assessment of what hes saying? She never returned it and I felt foolish. I find following my own silent pursuits, yoga and meditation, help me recenter. People on the Autism Spectrum have a difficult time maintaining a relationship because they just dont think about you when you are not around. I guess that is what this is???? with. I have been in a relationship for 10 months with someone with Aspergers. We have a happy ending, he came back to me and we are still together, he worked through his grief, which was an extremely difficult time for the both of us. My husband has Aspergers, but its not excusable that he blasts me for being old, ugly and fat. I understand everything about this, We were talking things out better. Nevertheless it feels like abuse doesnt it? However, he does not have the right to make this decision for the other person (you). They frequently acted hard and insecure. If I try to talk to him he walks out of the room. I know this is complex but the goal is to be brave, face your own fears, and be there for the other person first. Hope you are well whatever happened. Cherie. When we dont know what is going on, or we dont feel heard, we can withdraw into silence. The worst came when they started attacking your core character. Luckily we are not married and do not live together so if we do separate there is less at stake, except my heart and a long investment. Reiterated that his depression is not my problem However as months went by the more he opened up or let out his emotions the more he would pull away. This is simply not true. he always thinks of others and never forgets my birth day. Speaking with anyone who can relate would be such a huge blessing. I had nothing left, but mistrust. I would be honoured to share my story if it helps in any form. I wish desperately he would wake up and smell the madness, and do something about it. At least I know that we are not alone. These people are incapable of commiting to a normal relationship. There is so much I could say about your post. Also I want to know is it something I did that made him act like this ? We could never finish a single conversation. What are your thoughts on this? X. Omg you only called him that? I think you did an excellent job of expressing the perspective of an Autist. Howard has a chain and padlock on his front gate. Ie; do you consider us together at the moment. I suggested us moving in together and that, in retrospect was my big mistake. It was during that process we realized that my husband is ASD, likely Aspergers. My husband its his way and the wrong way . A fascinating topic as I'm an (undiagnosed) aspie male in my late 40s and recently had a very intense relationship, culminating with me 'going cold' and ruining everything in a single evening. They would always say yelling is not abuse but I think thats wrong. I don't expect him to provide for me or anything like that, I have always been good with money so I have a lot saved up for when I go back to school, but he spends every cent on video games and nonsense. I fell into a deep pit..still there. I tried for 6 yearshe even tried to commit suicide and sent me a text saying forgive me. Unfortunately Ive recently been shut out by her. But he had his reasons, as i had mine. I am not saying that everyone with mental disabilities / personality disorders is toxic, but toxic relationships are hard to escape from. You took it for as long as you could, reasoning that they were insecure and suffering from mental illness. How am I supposed to give of myself and take huge risks if he cannot even state that he is moving forward with me. One day he went to the extreme and this was followed by silence treatment. Did things improve? I lost my very close friend who is AS and went through many of the same situations as you. He also has a male church group I found for him, and he likes it, but its more a bunch of guys eating the snack of the day and BS ing instead of The Word. Unfortunately many use the silent treatment to get away from the distress and never return to resolve the problem with the other person. I knew deep down he loved me, I loved him but I could not keep subjecting myself to the pain and rejection. Much love to you and your little one. You are here: the ranch radio station charlie o in the morning; lovers' lane murders solved; why do aspies suddenly back off in relationshipshow much to pay rabbi for baby naming. The physicality of sex is far easier in terms of communication in. I dont know what to do any more, its so confusing and I feel rejected. I must have broken up with him at least ten times and thought about it even more. NTs can use the silent treatment too, for very similar reasons. She and her son moved in, and it's been a rollercoaster. As we all know, relationships can be difficult and complicated at times, but when one partner has Autism, many more difficulties usually arise. next month will be 5 long years married.. 2 weeks ago we were putting offers in to buy a home.. 3 days later after we didnt get the home ,I woke up and he handed me divorce papers. Whether you are Brazilian, or French, or South African, we all know what it is like to live with Aspies. I feel for you Sarah, I am so sorry you are going through this! One day Ill have enough courage to do so too. Associated conditions, such as a sleep disorder or ADHD, can make driving challenging, too. 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